But if youre going to do it i would make sure you fully evaluate the reasons he and your friend broke up and integrity of the guy.
My other friends say i did a good thing in telling her before i did anything and that she just taken it too far.
Is it ok is whenever your friend gets mad because she isnt with him you can do whatever you want.
At that time, i was not ready for relationship and hes my best friend boyfriend.
We become close due to he dated with my best friend so hes like a brother to me.
She was this devoted, loving quiet girlfriend with few friends, then got a car and it opened up opportunities.
You will be considered as the selfish one if u hinder your best friend and your exs happiness.
I have 3 bestfriends and only 1 i can trust to keep this secret maybe idk but this could ruin our friend ship what to do?
She befriended me, at first only to keep me away from him because she knew i still had feelings for him.
My ex wants to set me up with his friend
Irene says, this is a learning experience for you, a painful one for both you and your former best friend.
If you wanted to date him the post you should have said was that you wanted to talk to your friend(who you say he dated so you defiantly should have)and give him time and her time since they just broke up that day.
What if your ex and your best friend turn out to be soulmates and were destined to be together?
I wouldn't mind being a friend so maybe i can get laid out of the deal when/if she breaks up with this new guy.
So i told my friend are you gonna get mad at me she said no.
Lot of "fish" out in the sea, her ass seems to have the hook in her, you will also have the hook in you if you dont "move on".
All you should have waited or you need to go to your boyfriend and tell him you would like to wait so you can figure this out with your friend.
Too just ended a relationship that was 3 years old, and the ex-girlfriend does not want me seeing the ex-wife that preceded her.
Me sum it up for you pretty simply: she wants to have her cake and eat it too.
My ex wants to hook me up with his friend
Today he asked me out and of course i said yes becase he is cute and this is my first boyfriend too.
The guy that my friends dated with was a son to my music teacher, so both of us see each other frequently because we were in the same band.
However, we still pepper the conversations with l love yous and talk about being friends with benefits if it doesn't work out with the new guy, but she keeps putting up the act that this guy is a dream and everything she has ever wanted.
And my bf told my ex that he liked me a lot but despite of knowing his best friends feelings for me, he went out with me anyway.
I know many friends and sisters who make pledges to never let a man come between them.
I was so happy so i told one of my friends that didnt date him and she said to say no.
She claims she has no cares and often tells me she doesnt even want to be around him but puts up with him cause she knows he is my friend.
: i mean if ya stand back and look at all this most would see all this things about happy friends,soci.
In other words, when we start hooking up with an ex after a breakup, we dont just get to magically start from scratch.
Of my best friends, a girl (who my ex hated simply because she had a vagina - that's another thing, she was insanely jealous, still is) said something that stuck with me: her life with the new guy probably isn't as glamorous as she makes it out to be.
A best friend from high school and after that i use to hang out with everyday.
Understand your friend being upset, but in the end you have to do what you think is best for your own happiness.
History, or not, i'd bail and let her figure out if she wants to grow up and be an adult.
Knew i liked him for years and to me it seems like she was just my friend to benefit her and then when i was no longer able to do things for her and do her every command, she didnt want to know.
I assume that youre young and have never had the experience of a guy coming between you and a friend.
She told me sunday night, more than anything, she wants me to come over and just hold her in bed ("i know that's inappropriate and not fair to (her guy), but it's what i want").
Was in the same thing and im look for a way to tell my best friend im dating he ex.
I dont know if this is just because i do like one of my friends ex but i wanna be able to defend myself from people like you.
The record, i dont have a lot of respect for your boyfriend/her ex for coming between you two.
She claims he was talking to one of her friends and blocked him on everything.
The same day i got asked out the kid broke up with his girlfriend who is my best friend becauase my boyfriwnd said that the first day he saw me he was in love with me.
If it hasnt happened then end things with him and confess to your friend that her boyfriend cheated on her with you.
Time goes by i meet my now husband and she wants to throw a party for my birthday.
And a few weeks after that, my exs best friend asked me out and i said yes cuz i liked him.
This is your best friend, and this is someone your best friend was in love with or had feelings for in some way shape or form.
Dating a friends ex is hardly ever a good idea because it will often result in hurt feelings, even if that wasnt your intention.
Im sure if a friend dated and shagged your ex you would feel some type of way, weather or not you was together 5 days, weeks or years before.
Got to knw today dat d guy am dating nw is my best friendz ex, ed i love him so much buh nw am confused donno if i should continue or not.
41 but acts 21, dating a guy who she "breaks up" with several times a year, goes on a weekend trip with some other guy, then goes back to the boyfriend.
I reeeaaalllyyy dont want to hurt my friend but he is really cool and ive had a crush on hi.
.but she dumped him cause she hated him,so would that be okay if i went out with himi honestly dont know what to dobut i really like him,after 2 days when my best friend dumped him she had already found someone knew.
I do enjoy being single, i like my friend a lot though, and it has become stronger because of us hanging out so much, and i was going to progress it, but that whole hooking me up with his friend thing really threw me off.
And if your going to be an ass about it, might as well stfu and let your ex and best friend be happy.
If you want to have a good friendship with her you need to talk to her but if she own talk that means she already made her decision and you cant change that at least not now.
She acts like she wants to be back together, but i would bet my left nut that if i broke it off with my new girl, she suddenly wouldn't want that.
Im not saying that its always okay to date your friends exs, i would try to stay away from it as a general rule.
Friend max, a 35-year-old musician, has been sleeping with his ex-girlfriend for over two years now.
But if you go on to sleep with a friend/relative, she may start harassing you about that.
Thank you for the great advice but we broke up because he was a cheater and he cheated on me with one of my friends but thanks for trying.
People at my school are calling me a homie hopper for dating my exs best friend and it hurts so much.
I didnt, but the result was the fallout of our friendship due to a misunderstanding on her part.
Honest about wanting to date your friends ex was better than going behind her back but you havent mentioned whether or not she gave you the go ahead once you told her.
I told my bestfriend over the phone and told her that i couldnt do anything about my feelings because i couldnt control what my heart wanted.
My used to be best friend (we drifted apart due to different class now) dated this guy 3years ago.
Its understandable that your best friend would be angry, but is preventing a relationship gonna make anything better?