As a general rule with girls i purely want to hook up with, i just flirt hard, subtle hip touches, lots of eye contact, i will stand really close to her etc.
My love is true, sweetheart, please dont let our opportunity of love just slip away like this.
That said, if you get together with a guy who is not just in it for the sex, but nevertheless doesn't want any more from you than that, he just thought you didn't click.
How to know if it's more than just a hookup
: shutterstock another guy says he won't try to get to know you thechampdotcom: i won't express interest in her usually.
: shutterstock one guy says a girl he doesn't want to date will never meet his parentsluker_man: girls i just want to hook up with will never meet my family.
When a man is actually there for you, and is reachable, approachable, and willing to offer a listening ear, then you should know that you are special to him.
How to know if it's more than a hookup
But theres one key thing to remember here: a serious guy wont reach out to you just for sex, hell actually reach out to you to talk.
She might be sexy as hell but just not my personality type, or batsh*t insane, or 101 other things that might mean she and i are not compatible.
A guy whos just looking to hook up wont let you in on his problems, because you mean nothing to him.
Men dont take the time to get to know a girl on a personal level like this unless theyre truly serious.
There will be a level of common ground, communication, and honesty that you just wont have with a hookup.
Sure, your place might be closer, or he might be taking steps to make sure he's untraceable post-hookup.
The more you know someone the more you know whether you want a relationship with them.
Hookups (like spending time together and conversation) are a way of getting to know someone.
You dont need to be all up in her face trying to get her into bed, but you definitely want to be pushing things in that direction as soon as you can to help avoid that dreaded lets just be friends conversation.
I love my girl right now and i really want her to know that i love her for her and i am straight up serious when i tell her that i want a serious relationship.
Youve discussed exes, past flirts and flings, as well as regrettable choices, your childhoods, friendships gone wrong, and more.
I found a thread on ask reddit that addresses this exact issue: how can you tell if a guy is just looking for sex or for something more?
If hes on his phone, blows you off, keeps asking you to repeat something, or completely overrides the conversation by bringing something else up, then he just doesnt care.
It's not until after we've been hooking up for a while that i would even know whether or not i'd be interested in a relationship with her.
I am really putting in some hard work right now just to make her believe me that i want to be serious with her.