10 things you need to know about dating an extrovert

As you may know from personal experience, introverts are often slower to respond to texts, and sometimes wont pick up a ringing phone if theyre busy or just not in the mood to talk in fact, they may not even have the phone on at all.

Im an extrovert (enfp) and hes an introvert (infj) kinda funny this blog is the kinda stuff he says to me :p.

Need to fill up that energy tank and the only way to do that is to leave us the hell alone, thanks so much.

When you first get to know us, our "selective social-ness" might confuse the hell out of you -- but you'll get used to it.

Shes not mad, shes not holding anything in and she certainly doesnt need to talk it out.

This difference between the two becomes a problem when an introvert starts to think that a friendly extroverted boyfriend or girlfriend is actually flirting with someone else.

) will assume we're extroverted because we don't have any problem introducing ourselves to perfect strangers.

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, when dating, there is often attraction between introverts and extroverts since each partner consistently offers what the other is missing within their life and character.

Remember that you dont need to spend every minute with someone just because youre in a relationship with them.

We get along great, but were opposites in many things, especially when it comes to our personality.

The other hand, extroverts find turning a phone off a foreign idea and they enjoy being in frequent contact with many people, including their partners.

Youre an introvert, you should not immediately assume that this is the case, unless the extrovert is using incredibly sexual or romantic language.

. other people are always surprised that a reserved girl like you is dating such an outgoing person.

I wasnt even a little bit surprised by our results my boyfriend was declared an extrovert, and i was declared an introvert.

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We need some quiet recharge time, and having someone ask us how our day was, what happened, etc.

All the introverts out there who have fallen into the arms of a loving extrovert, were here to help you get along even better!

The extrovert can liven up the introvert and motivate them to take action, while the introvert can calm the extrovert down when needed and act as a steady source of quiet comfort.

Many extroverts are such open books that they dont realize that other people, particularly more introverted types, want to keep some details of their lives private.

Extroverts tend to be open and gregarious with everyone, including strangers, while introverts, although polite, show a bit more reserve.

Hence, if there are some details about yourself that you want your extroverted partner to keep between you two, its best to come right out and tell them so.

Of course, for those more passionate introverts dating completely-uncaring-about-anything-but-social-interaction extroverts, it leads to not a balance of the two personalities as one, but instead tons of conflict and an inevitable fall through of the relationship.

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On the flip side, introverts may be shocked by how much an extroverted partner shares with them in conversation, especially when this information relates to the extroverts feelings.

Introvert likes to think about things, so if you spring a new topic or pick a fight, dont be surprised if you dont get the level of participation you want from your introvert lover.

If youre an introvert dating an extrovert, you may notice that they tend to talk on and on and on, seemingly forgetting that theyre in a two-way conversation.

If you dont want to be interrupted at certain times, such as during work or your fitness classes, simply tell your extroverted partner in a polite manner to avoid any misunderstandings about you ignoring him or her.

. but they also help you relax and just have a good time when you need it.

Thats why you must understand that your partner needs some time to be out and about.

For the introvert who really wants to make things work with an extroverted sweetheart, here are some tips to help you do just that without going crazy.

Therefore, if your extroverted honey wants to go out with the guys or girls multiple times per week, dont turn it into a huge issue.

I simply sat and thought, for four (delayed train) hours, while all the details bubbled up in my brain, and this scrawny, black-haired, bespectacled boy who didn't know he was a wizard became more and more real to me.

The problem is, since extroverts would never act this way themselves, they either get totally confused by this behavior or dont even notice that anything is amiss.

Just as introverts recharge their batteries by spending time alone, extroverts recharge theirs by being with other people, especially in groups.

Introverts (or innies) who gain energy by spending time alone are drawn to extroverts because of their easy-breezy social nature.

Its okay to ask your extroverted partner to accompany you to the occasional lengthy, quiet event, especially if you attend social events with them, acknowledge that they dont enjoy these events as much as you do.

As a private introvert, you may wonder why someone would even bring such personal things out into the open.

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Not part of an introverts natural style to interrupt, but if you can learn to do this to add more content to the conversation, your extroverted partner may even be delighted since theyd be able to enjoy a discussion or a friendly debate.

(or outies) who recharge their batteries by spending time with other people may find themselves attracted to introverts because of their ability to listen and ground the more restless parts of the extroverts personality.

We have some of our best conversations and liveliest arguments on our morning walks because my extrovert husband will lay the groundwork for the topic the afternoon before (politics, personal matters, where to go on vacation next, etc.

Relationship between an introvert and an extrovert, if handled correctly, can be mutually satisfying for the long term.

Remember that conversing with a variety of people is how an extrovert has fun, and he or she will still be going home with you at the end of the day.

, when ashley wrote about what its like to be an extrovert dating an introvert, i knew i had to write the same thing, from a different perspective.

The squeaky wheel gets the grease, so all interactions naturally come to revolve around the extroverts needs, and everything the couple does begins to relate to what the extrovert wants to do.

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We might complain and whine, getting out is good for the balance of introvert-extrovert dating.

" know that precise limit or you'll be carrying us over your shoulders at 2am because you found us cowering in a corner checking our facebook notifications because omg, there's just so many people around us and make the noise stop.

For extroverts, however, having to sit still for prolonged time periods, especially without talking, is very tedious or even infuriating.

Most days, its hard enough to be an introvert alone it becomes just a little more difficult when youre dating someone with a very extroverted personality.

I truly am such a friendly, sweet-natured oddball that yearns for friendships and a boyfriend but i need to be invited to join a discussion or event otherwise i feel like i am being a bother or intrusive.

Our default stance is to consider, to play things out in our heads before opening our mouths.

Youre married to, dating or even just romantically interested in an introvert, below are 10 things our self-proclaimed innie readers want you to know.

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